Lilith Conjunct Venus Synastry


Michelle Pfeiffer as Léa  & Rupert Friend as Chéri


Let’s get down and dirty for my first post. Let’s talking about Lilith Conjunct Venus synastry.

We all know the history of this supposedly demonic woman, Lilith. Her reputation I refute, and maybe that’s because I am a Lilith type of woman. with Lilith conjunction my ASC, and Pluto in Scorpio, it makes it easy for me to relate.

However, recently  I just met a man that really excite me in ways I never thought possible. And once I took a look at our synastry I noticed a few things. His Moon conjunct my Mars, His South Node conjunct My Venus, and My North Node conjunct his Venus, and his Lilith and South Node Conjuncts My Venus.

We met under strange circumstances at my job. And, boy did he stare at me. I felt like I knew him. It was odd, it was like we’ve met before. Every time we spoke, I wanted to rip off his clothes. Although, it does have a forbidden fruit aspect to it. He does have a girlfriend. He is persistent, I’ve been resisting his advances. It’s comparable to Chéri. I’m mothering him, telling him “No don’t do this, or that” and he genuinely enjoys the tit for tat.

Lilith conjunct Venus is very sexual. The intensity is out of the world. You want to love the person; hold on tight to them, and never let them go. There always something to the relationship that makes it a secret.  It could be race, age, classism etc.  However, it’s one aspect you’ll never forget. You’ll look into each others eyes and just know.

I would say from my experience the Lilith person feels it the most. Nonetheless, I truly think that depends on more than just this aspects. And, when we see Lilith in a man’s chart it is what he desires, and also what he’s afraid of. With his Lilith in cancer in 2nd house would lead him to desire a woman that’s warm, affectionate and that would be geared towards his 2nd house( self-worth ) But, this is also tied into fear.

But he may be open to it a little more. His sun and venus in Pisces. Water signs are all about feeling Nevertheless, Pisces are known to be very selfish people. And, desire their needs to be met, now.

However, strong Lilith aspects in synastry could make you do crazy things. Desire someone that you know is not good for you, similar to the tale of Chéri. You can feel the existence of that person when they are noot even around. But, when you’re there with them you just know it’s not right, it can’t work, but you can’t be without them.

Let me know your experience with this aspect. I’m very curious:)


16 thoughts on “Lilith Conjunct Venus Synastry

  1. It’s incredible, this one looks like my story with thig guy. His moon is conjunct my mars in cancer and his lilith in pisces is conjunct my venus. We have also venus trine pluto and his sun is conjunct my lilith. He is 15 years younger than me and he has a girlfriend, we met at his hairsalon, he is my hairdresser..the attraction is so intense like a magnet! I really hope is going to happen something, we keep teasing each other but me more than him, he is very shy..maybe because he works with his father and he notices everything.

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    1. Very interesting…..I find this combination Moon conjunct Mars extremely sexy, and comfortable. That’s probably because I am a Mars and Venus in cancer.

      Lillth conjunct Venus. It’s a very dangerous. It’s like you know it’s wrong, but it pulls you.
      It’s definitely always the Lilith person doing the pulling. And, I love Pisces in Venus. I love Venus in all water signs. Though, there is something alluring about just the Pisces sign in general.

      With Lilith conjunct Venus, and with the subtlety of Moon conjunct Mars just try not to get your self in the compromising situation 😉

      Happy Holidays


  2. My situation is a bit different. The other person is my mother. Her Lilith conjuncts my Venus and Mercury in Pisces. My 3rd House, her 8th. I don’t really know what to make of this. To be honest, she isn’t very nice to me. There are many difficult aspects between us which I can relate to but this one has me stumped. Would you have any ideas?

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    1. Hello,

      Yes, Lilith can very difficult with family members. Extremely. I would say Lilith conjunct Venus with family specifically with women will bring up some animosity, and jealously. Lilith is infamous for that.

      Is Lilith strong in your chart? she may make you feel uncomfortable because the lack of Lilith in your chart.
      I’m guessing there are some moon inflictive aspects. Look into the moon more so; However, this aspect will contribute some anger.


  3. The only good post so far about this topic! And spot on: especially with looking into the eyes, having telepathy and still knowing it’s toxic and sth you need to let go of but can’t. Thank you!

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  4. In my case, his Lilith conjunct my Venus (in Virgo) in his 5th house. I always wondered who feels what more. I have read the Venus person feels it more and is supposed to “resist” the temptation of the Lilith person. Many markers point to the “forbidden” nature of our relationship. We are different ethnicities, different countries of origin, different political beliefs, I am 4 years older (not that bad), oh, and we currently live hundreds of miles apart.

    We seem to have a lot of sexual aspects in our synastry: Our Mars’ conjunct each other’s Descendants, His Venus Conjunct my Mars, His Venus Conjunct my Uranus, His Moon trine my Mars, Not to mention that my Sun, Venus and Pluto are all in his 5th house.

    This doesn’t even mention the composite in which we have Sun and Venus conjunct pluto and a composite stellium (Sun, Mercury, Venus and Pluto) in the 4th house in Scorpio.

    It kind of feels like in spite of our attraction, we will never really get off the ground!


    1. Wow the chemistry the two of you must have. Something else! 😉
      Yeah, I’m totally tossed. Sometimes I feel like its reciprocated by both parties. However, my guy is losing his grips on me; Yet, he’s still there very hot n heavy for me, and he holds Lilith.

      However, you have some good aspects. I believe planets on the Desc are very powerful. Very strong. But, I’m unsure about Venus conjunct Uranus.. Eh, I had that one and it was a sketchy relationship. Didn’t last long at all!
      I’m a little tossed on your on your synastry & composite ( well from what you told me!). It seems promising but there are some worrisome aspects. Like my most Synastry’s and composite, huh? lol 😉

      Thanks for reading my post. I have many more coming soon!


    1. Thanks for reading… I say tread lightly. I’m kinda of bored of mines. It’s a on and off feeling! I believe it is extremely powerful. It’s kind of hard to leave each other alone!… The best way to deal with it is 1. run far away lol! 2. indulge in the pleasure.. lol


  5. Recognize this; Her Lilith on my Venus. The eyes. The wacky fascination. Different age, background, location. Can´t not think of her, soul howling for her in the night. My Pluto trine her Venus, her Pluto trine my sun. In composite, north node on Pluto in Libra 5 house, sort of on a Yod´s fulcrum. Etc. A lot of 12house stuff. When this finally drives me round the bend all the way, I´ll have learnt a lot at least, that´s for sure. Thanks for the article.

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  6. ~This is the only article I can find on the net regarding this aspect~ I’m the Lilith
    Also: north node conjunct south node, his mars conjunct sun, his moon conjuncts my 5th house
    He made me feel awful but that was the most intense sexual connection I’ve ever experienced. Please. tell me more of what you may know..


  7. Yep, his Lilith conjunct my Venus. It was love at first sight…. the intensity of he staring at me or vice versa…. very strong magnetic attraction. We have a lot more aspects; together we can’t stay without touching each other.


  8. In my situation,
    my lilith con his venus, opposite his jupiter and square his mars. We are just friends for now but I am really impressed at first sight.


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